Shabana
practices her spelling in California's
Huntington Beach Union School
District where Arabic is taught
in a pilot program. (Rick
Loomis/Los Angeles Times Photo) |
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A
young high school basketball
player, who is Muslim, breaks
his Ramadan fast after sundown. (Rick
Loomis/Los Angeles Times Photo) |
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Boys
in front with their arms folded
across their waists, girls in back
with scarves covering their hair. This
arrangement fell into place as
naturally as if the classroom where
they had gathered were a mosque.
Fourteen Muslim students were ready
to begin their midday prayers.
Surrounded
by desks, books, maps and slide projectors,
the group paid no attention to the
classroom chaos, nor to the racket
outside the door. It was lunchtime
at Palos Verdes Peninsula High School,
and the campus was buzzing. More
important for these boys and girls,
it was Ramadan, the sacred month-long
period during which Muslims are required
to fast from sunup to sundown. This
year, these students, ages 14 to
18, are determined to stand up for
their faith through prayer in this
quiet yet public way.
They
say that praying together during
Ramadan is one way they can show
their commitment to a religion that
has recently become the most discussed,
criticized and defended of any in
the world. "I feel that it's important
to show people what my religion is
all about, especially at a time like
this," said freshman Rehan Muttalib,
14, whose parents are from India. "We
need to clear up stereotypes."
The
terrorist attacks on the U.S. and
the barrage of news about Osama bin
Laden and the al Qaeda terrorist
network changed life on the campus
of this upper-middle-class suburban
public school, where about 285 of
the 3,300 students are Muslim, according
to the school's administration office.
About five years ago, a small group
of the school's Muslim students formed
a Muslim Student Union; the organization
has taken on new resonance this semester,
and the Ramadan prayer sessions are
just one part of that.
The
Union almost didn't exist this year-the
students were so affected and distracted
by world events that they missed
the school's extracurricular activity
registration deadline. "After Sept.
11 they were in shock," says James
Maechling, the group's faculty advisor, "they
couldn't get it together." Maechling
is chairman of the religious studies
department, as well as the world
history department, which introduces
major religions as part of the curriculum.
When
it finally met, Maechling said the
group was more focused than he has
ever seen it. "Last year, there were
only five or eight kids, and they
met sporadically. This year, they've
had an average of 20 students at
meetings." A typical meeting includes
a talk about some aspect of their
religion by one of the students,
prayers and lunch.
Two
other clubs gather regularly to pray
on the Palos Verdes campus: the New
Life Club and the Servants of Christ
Club, both organized by Christian
students. Members of any religion
are free to form a group, as long
as they do not preach their religion
or try to convert anyone, according
to California's Board of Education
guidelines. The study of religion
is also within the boundaries of
public school education, as long
as the subject is presented in the
context of history and culture, not
religious instruction.
Most
of the Muslim students at Palos Verdes
High were born in the U.S. to parents
who emigrated from Iran, Egypt, India
and other Middle Eastern and Asian
countries. Like their schoolmates,
they face the usual social and academic
peer pressures, but this fall they
are also contending with a pervading
mistrust of Muslims.
"At
first, they scattered," Maechling
said. "The day of the attacks they
had a lump in their throats. It was
too much for them." Some of the students
who planned to join the Muslim Student
Union were advised by fellow Muslims
on campus to avoid calling attention
to themselves. "They said, 'Don't
do this,"' recalled junior Josh Mansour,
16, one of the leaders of the student
union. The advice to blend in came
from non-practicing Muslim students,
he said. "They think Islam is a radical
religion."
He
sees it another way. "There are a
lot of Muslim students on campus," he
said. "Some of us decided it's important
to practice what we believe, together,
as a sign of unity." Though their
backgrounds vary, these students
are from observant families, and
practicing their religion is not
new to them. However, this year Ramadan
carries larger responsibilities and
commitments.
On
the first day, several of the students
recited from the Koran in Arabic
during prayer time. One of them,
Zeyad Maasarani, 16, learned the
language at home. His mother taught
it to him. He keeps up with it by
watching Arabic language television.
He and several other students said
for them it seems urgent to stand
up for their faith. But they also
admitted to teenage insecurities
about being judged by other students.
"I
want to be seen as a regular teenager
on campus," Muttalib said. "But I
also want to be accepted as a Muslim,
not something different or wrong." He
said he is attending the Ramadan
prayers on campus because he might
not get to them on his own. Other
students, however, said they feel
safer, praying together. "We need
morale building," Mansour said. "A
lot of Muslims here and around the
world are having problems. We want
them to know they're not alone."
Asked
about Bin Laden and al Qaeda, some
of the students turned red-faced. "I
don't think there are Muslim fundamentalists," Maasarani
responded fervently. "There are corrupt
governments and extremists."
Muttalib
was a bit more objective. "I see
the Taliban and Osama bin Laden not
as Muslims who practice the religion
correctly but as people who misunderstand
the religion," he said. "Most Muslims
try to practice the core of the religion.
I do."
Just
last month, Maddy Ghorob, 14, whose
parents immigrated to the U.S. from
Iran, made a big decision about her
style of dress. Women are not required
to wear a head scarf, which is seen
as a sign of modesty and a signal
that they are trying to live by Muslim
teachings that forbid sex outside
of marriage and alcohol, among other
things. While most of the girls who
attended the Ramadan prayers wore
Western clothes and only covered
their hair to pray, Ghorob changed
her entire wardrobe when she "took
the veil." She now wears a long skirt
and long-sleeve top as well, to completely
conceal her figure.
"I
swore I never would wear the veil," she
said. As for her figure-concealing
dress, she added, "my goal used to
be to wear a size two, date and go
to proms. Now, I want to be identified
as Muslim. There's nothing to be
ashamed of."
Ghorob
and others in the Muslim Student
Union say that the vast majority
of the Muslim students on campus
are steering clear of anything that
identifies them that way. "They're
trying so hard to fit in, I can't
tell the Muslims from everyone else," said
Dania Arafeh, 14, one of Ghorob's
best friends.
Arafeh
started covering her hair with a
scarf three years ago. Born in the
U.S, the child of Egyptian-and Palestinian-born
parents, she refers to women as precious
jewels, citing the Koran as her source. "It
doesn't mean a woman is any less
if she covers herself," she said. "It's
for her protection. Why give yourself
away too soon?"
For
decades, progressive Muslim and other
religious leaders in the U.S. have
advised new immigrants to leave their
religious garb at home and dress
Western style to fit better into
U.S. society. Arafeh's fervor for
traditional garb suggests a different
vision for the future. "It'd be so
cool if people from every faith wore
their religious clothing," she said. "We'd
all learn more about each other that
way."
As
Arafeh and Ghorob stood talking outside
Maechling's classroom after the first
day of Ramadan prayers, Bahareh Shayegan-Fatemi
introduced herself to them. She had
attended their prayer gathering but
sat on the sidelines, watching.
"I
came here four months ago from Iran," she
explained to the other girls. "I
didn't know any Muslims, so I hid
myself and my ways." Her T-shirt
and jeans helped prove her point.
In Iran, women are required to wear
a veil and robe that covers them. "I
am so surprised," she said, suddenly
giggly and breathless. "When you
are alone, you are a drop of water.
But here with the other Muslim students,
you are part of the sea, one of many
drops."
Shayegan-Fatemi
couldn't say whether she would ever
dress in traditional Muslim dress
in the U.S. She wasn't even sure
whether she would join the students
again for Ramadan prayers.
"I'm
so surprised," she said. "I need
some time."
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